Am I Crazy

by Jack
(Charlotte NC USA)

I have been happily married for 30 years. This pandemic has really impacted my marrriage. I have to admit that I suffer from depression. My wife turns 60 next month and has been going to bars at night with our daughter and her female cousin. She says that she just needs to get out of the house. She blames me for not taking her out. She does work from home and has no outside contact until she drinks with our daughter and her cousin. daughter (25) female cousin (58).

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May 16, 2021

by: Hans

Certainly, the pandemic is affecting people in an extreme way. I'm concerned that it will set back socializing and friendliness by decades. I find myself not wanting to go out or bother to do much too, but I am forcing myself to get out of the house and try to speak to others, even if through a mask.

It seems like women of any age need to get out of the house and socialize with other people. They seem to need it much more than men.

So, I would think your wife would need to do that. Is there some reason you couldn't go out with them too? It seems like it would be fun for you to be with your wife, daughter and another female. You can avoid drinking or just have a modest amount. Sometimes there are other men you could chat with, or watch whatever sports are on the TV.

Think of it like a date night. The girls will be chatting and you can just sit back and relax. Be prepared to do a little dancing as the night wears on. You can also just play with your phone, do some reading.

In short, I don't think women can deal with just being home all the time.

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