I came to the internet late in life. The best bloggers for men have provided me so much free advice, guidance and inspiration. I only wish I was a young man again so I could truly spend all my life happier, instead of just now.
When I dug down deep into their methods, I realized they were either consciously or more likely, unconsciously using the 3 step method for their success. The 3 Steps Are:
I have spent thousands of hours on the internet.
I love it. It is better than a library. More vast and varied.
It's much easier than a library. Just sit and surf as fast as you can. Get absorbed in something or scan information at a furious pace.
Yes, getting books will sometimes cost. But once you have an internet connection of some kind, you can happily read, watch and listen for as much time as you have.
I have stumbled onto a few of the best bloggers for men that have helped me a lot.
Their words have helped me get past some very difficult times and have helped me to become happier.
The best bloggers for men have some things in common:
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Often, they write about mindset or how you might think differently and in the process, something will "click" into place for you.
To me, they have gotten "IT." They have the types of lives that we all want.
How do you have time for all this reading, rereading, watching and listening to the best bloggers for men?
Eliminate the time wasters in your life
Spend entire weekends absorbing their guidance instead of wasting it getting drunk, playing video games, going to church or watching sports.
Besides, they are busy enjoying their fabulous lives. They aren't posting multiple times a day or even every week or emailing you continuously.
There is always time for what is important to you...and they are.
Mike from DangerandPlay.com dives into the details of men's issues, men's rights, fitness, steroids, testosterone replacement therapy and most importantly...mindset.
If you are just starting out trying to re-invent your life, start here. You will not go wrong.
If your life is not anything close to what you want. Start with Danger and Play.
The more you can capture the essence of his mindset, and get your mind right in the process, the more you will live a fantastic life.
A few basics on Mike
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Danger and Play is a quote.
“The real man wants two things – danger and play.” – Nietzsche
Danger and Play is what we want.
A tedious life of conformity and routine is not in our DNA. We want action and excitement – danger and play.
We are not caricatures of masculinity. We recognize that a balanced life involves relaxation with family, friends, and pets.
Danger and Play is a discovery.
The highest form of intelligence is instinct and the greatest expression of masculinity is will.
A man’s instinct is to be free. We exercise our will against the slavery imposed upon us by our would-be masters.
Danger and Play is a mindset.
Victor from BoldandDetermined.com is bold, brash and not willing to back off on his view of the world. His attitude is what you need if you tend to be lazy. If you follow his guidance, you will jump out of bed each day eager to improve and conquer.
A few basics on Victor
Chris from GoodLookingLoser.com gives you the hardcore guidance on weight loss, steroids, male enhancement, supplements and getting good with girls.
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Caleb from BlackDragonBlog.com teaches you a different way of dating, one of strength, freedom and happiness. He sprinkles in articles on business, travel, freedom and politics. He may be my favorite of the best bloggers for men.
This is definitely not your mothers or mainstream guidance on dating.
A few basics on Caleb
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I can live, love, and experience all that women have to offer in the most deep and profound ways…but I am still free to be a man. I’ve been living this lifestyle since 2007 and it’s an extremely good place to be.Add that to the fact that I’m self-employed, make a good income, and have zero employees, I live the lifestyle of the modern Alpha Male.
James is the ultimate blogger. Prolific in blogs and books. Always willing to bleed on the page with his failures and how he came back.
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I love reading James Altucher even though I have a hard time relating to him. He is wealthy, Jewish, slight frame, loves games and very prolific.
Steve is the first blogger I started to read obsessively. His volume of articles is staggering and the good advice is fantastic.
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Steve has been on my favorites list for years. He is so prolific. I love his lengthy articles where he dives so deep into a subject.
I do have a hard time with his vegan views. But to each his own.
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You aren't here to struggle and suffer. You're here to express and share your creative gifts, to give and receive love, and to be happy. It will take time, but this site can certainly help you get there, and the vast majority of resources here are free.
Dr. Robert Anthony
I have a number of Dr. Robert Anthony's programs. I have the Secret of Deliberate Creation CD program in my truck and listen to it over and over again.
Dr. Anthony does not blog.
Dr. Joe Vitale
Dr. Vitale is very prolific, very giving, very good. Google him. He has written books, blogs, CD programs. He will help you get more prosperous.
His blog is MrFire.com
I am not an established blogger with a large audience...yet. But you can learn a lot from me on how to live a happier life.
I feel a connection to the best bloggers for men through absorbing myself in their writing for many years. I feel like I have learned a great deal from them, maybe almost as much as I have learned from my father. Certainly more than I have learned from any teacher, professor or boss.
Reading their words, enjoying their websites, blogs, podcasts, videos and books has made my life better.
Let the best bloggers for men help you too.
The only way I could become the happier man I am today was by leaving my wife. You might be in the same situation I was in. I suggest you take a look at my book - Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System.
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