Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man With the 3 Step System

You think you need to leave your wife.  But you're not sure if you can actually go through with it.

It's a big step.  It's huge.  It's scary.  What about the bills?  What about the kids?  What about the house and the 401K?  What about the family?  What about your commitment?  What about your religion?  What about god?

When you start to think about it and search the internet, all the normal advice talks about the effect of your leaving on others.  No one seems to care about you and what you are going through.

You only hear something about how your happiness would inconvenience others and it is your duty to stay no matter what.

This is what you mostly hear

  • You need to "man up"
  • You have to be tough
  • You made your bed, now lie in it
  • A marriage is forever
  • Don't even consider it
  • Deal with it 
  • A"real man" would never leave his wife
  • Just love her more
  • Turn your life over to god
  • Keep momma happy
  • You're a man, you should be able to take a little criticism
  • You are the husband, so you're stupid and wrong

With all that going on in the background you never tell anyone you might need to leave your wife. 

Who are you even going to tell?  Certainly not your wife.  You know she is not the type of person you can confide in.  Maybe a close friend.  The problem is you've been married so long, your whole world is being a husband.  Besides your friends are busy with their own lives and problems.  Probably not even your family.  You want them to not be suspicious of your wife.

You just keep your pain and misery bottled up inside you, put your head down and try to survive.

Your head down trying to block out her latest tirade

You smile even if you are miserable.  You tolerate whatever is going on.  You put on an act.  You just try to be tougher and stoically deal with it.  You go to work early and stay late.  You find excuses to avoid her.  You tip-toe around her and try to make her happy. 

But you and I know how hard it is to deal with it.

I used to be like you.  Not knowing what to do.  Having no one to talk to.  No one who understood what I was going through.  Timid and afraid of my wife.  Dominated and controlled by her.  Sometimes getting screamed at.  Certainly belittled, shamed and coerced into doing what I did not want to and feeling terrible about myself.  I was verbally abused and became a shell of the man I used to be.

And I was not really the man I wanted to be before I got married anyway.  I was hoping that being married to a good woman would help me become a better, satisfied man.

But instead of being loved, happy, satisfied with a good wife and building a future together, I went backwards.  I did not enjoy my days or look forward to the future.  I just tried to make it through the day without getting screamed at or lectured.

The bills were always piled high too.  Never any breathing room.  She could spend money at a furious pace and if I mentioned slowing down the spending, or taking it easy for a few months...watch out.  There would be hell to pay.

At a minimum, she would say alright and then spend more anyway behind my back.

There was always the drama and chaos.  She was either fighting with her family, making a scene in public or doing extremely disruptive things like starting a big remodeling project, buying some huge piece of furniture that needed assembly or agreeing to host a huge family party and then expecting me to pick up the pieces, do all the work and pay for it all.  It was frustrating, expensive and exhausting.

The worst was that I lived under her verbal abuse for years.  Taking it.  Absorbing it.  Believing it.

I had no control over my life.  No happiness.  Only brief moments of good while waiting for another episode of bad.

That is your life.  I know it.  You know it.

You have no chance of a good life if you are married to a bad woman.  And there seems to be a lot more bad women than good women nowadays.

There certainly seems to be a  fairly large share of women behaving badly.  Of course I do not have percentages, only a feeling from observing the world.

Worrying about percentages of good marriages and good women is an incredibly stupid waste of your time and life anyway.  Percentages do not matter if your life sucks.

I wish this was not true. 

I wish every man could experience a wonderful, happy marriage with a woman who adores you and loves you for who you are not who she thinks she has to mold and shape. 

A woman who has your back.  Who would not even think of criticizing you or doing something major without getting your blessing.  A woman who would gladly stand by the decisions you made for the good of your family.  A woman you love to be with and happily work together with.

A woman who is responsible and not so blasted difficult to live with and so high maintenance.

But that is not your reality is it?

Your reality is a woman who spends all your money on foolish desires without any considerations for how you want to live your life and your future.

Dealing with another lecture with some screaming thrown in for good measure

A woman who seems to loves to use sarcastic remarks to cut you down.  Not only privately, but publicly.  Not only in front of her friends, but your friends and family. Maybe even in front of your own children.

Your reality is a woman who mocks and humiliates you.

Your reality is being exhausted trying to please her and putting up with her tantrums and ultimatums.

A woman who yells and screams.  A woman who finds fault with you at almost every turn and who sees nothing wrong with spending a few hours lecturing you on your faults.

This is the extremely miserable life you are in, isn't it?

Your marriage may have started out pretty good.  A happy wedding day.  Plenty of sex in the early days.  She was working and seemed to be happy to be contributing to her share of the bills and saving money for your future together.  She would ask you about everything major and even everything minor.  She loved you and thought you were the greatest.

But not now.  You're not exactly sure when or why it went bad.  But it is certainly  bad now.

You're not sure what to do.  You don't know what to do, or what you are up against.  Worse, your confidence is gone and you are afraid of upsetting her, afraid to talk to her about it and even afraid to think about leaving her.

You don't know what to do and do not even know who you can talk to.

I wrote the book -

Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System

...for you.  Because you are living an extremely limited and miserable life.  You are living now as I was living then. 

You are a good man, living a horrible life and you don't know what to do.

This book is what to do.

This is the book I wish I had years ago, right when my life starting to get bad.  I would have not wasted years of my precious life staying married to the wrong woman.

I stumbled onto the 3 step system accidentally.  I did not have anyone to guide me.  I guided myself. 

The system is the key to leave your wife.  Follow it and your life gets better.  Don't follow it and your life gets worse.

What You Will Find in the Book

  • Methods, techniques and strategies.
  • The importance of your thoughts.
  • How to know if your marriage is worth saving.
  • The truth about verbal abuse from various experts.
  • The marriage myths that will destroy your life.
  • Why people stay in bad marriages.
  • The effect on your children.
  • My extremely painful personal story.
  • How to keep track of the problems.
  • Practical action steps to take before leaving your wife.
  • The actual day of when I left my wife.
  • How to survive in the days, months and years after leaving your wife.
  • Critical needs during the process.
  • Things you need to do after you leave your wife.
  • How to start to rebuild your life.
  • What type of future you have to look forward to once you leave your wife.

Excerpt from the Introduction to -
Leave Your Wife & Become A Happier Man with the 3 Step System

I was sitting in the living room of our big suburban home late one winter night trying to calmly explain to my wife that her criticisms, threats, putdowns, demands, excessive sarcasm and verbal abuse was not acceptable to me anymore.  I told her I’ve had enough and I needed her to make changes in how she treated me.

“Write down what you want from me!” My wife screamed as she stood over me seething in rage.

I took out a sheet of paper and pen and wrote in big letters across it…BE NICE… and handed it to her.

That was it.  That was my request.

She looked at it, crumpled the paper and threw it back at me in disgust.  “I can’t do that,” she snapped and stormed off.

This was nothing new to me.  I was used to my wife screaming at me, lecturing me, blaming me, finding fault and criticizing me for almost everything I did.  She called me names, created unnecessary drama and chaos, spent money at a furious pace and caused problems on an almost weekly basis.

I stayed up late and got up early to work hard at work to pay for our nice lifestyle and even harder at home bending over backwards to try to please her.  But nothing was ever good enough.

I was exhausted, fat, flabby, weak, pale, broke and old before my time.

Even worse, I was frustrated, unhappy, miserable and even suicidal at times with no hope of a good future.

That was my life then, but not anymore.  I am free from her and have become a happier man in total control of my life.

More of What You Will Find inside -
Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System

You need -

Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System

if you:

  • Aren't sure what is wrong with your life.
  • Are not sure why you are miserable...hint...it may be your wife.
  • Are afraid of your wife.
  • Get yelled at by your wife.
  • Get severely criticized by your wife.
  • Find that no matter what you do for her, your wife is never satisfied.
  • Find you have to watch what you say or do around your wife and you cannot be yourself.
  • Your wife creates unnecessary drama and chaos.
  • You are worried about your children if you leave your wife.
  • Are concerned with the effect of a divorce on your children.
  • Your needs are never met.
  • Find your wife does whatever it takes to get her way.
  • Are mocked and humiliated by your wife.
  • Need to walk on eggshells around her.
  • Think your future is not be worth living for.

...then this book was written specifically for YOU. It’s nearly 200 pages of principles and techniques that has been successfully used by me to leave my bad marriage behind, start over and become the extremely happier man I am today.

Nothing is as bad as being married to a bad wife.

Nothing is as good, as leaving her, starting over and recreating your life as you desire.

In Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System, you will learn specific, step-by-step techniques to:

  • Rebuild your confidence.
  • Understand your power.
  • Go from a hen-pecked, unhappy, overly-criticized meek husband to an assured, happy single man looking forward to the rest of his life.
  • Turn your miserable life around.
  • Regain control of your financial life.
  • Raise happier, more responsible children who will have a great life.
  • Become a happier man living a great now and looking forward to an even better future.

Happier men have been leaving their difficult wives and making massive improvements in their lives.

What About You?  Is Your Life & Happiness Worth It?

How much more of your life are you going to waste with a bad wife?

How much more of her bad behavior are you going to tolerate?

How many of your desires for how you want to live your life are you going to squash down while you bend over backwards trying to please an unreasonable wife?

How many more times will you be cut down by your wife?

Your world has changed.  The wife who adored you and thought you did no wrong, now seems to spend all her time plotting up new ways to create drama and chaos for you to exhaust yourself dealing with.  She seems to take delight in criticizing you, mocking and humiliating in many different ways, sometimes even in front of others.

Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System will help you make the biggest decision of your life.  My own heartbreaking and inspiring story shows how it can be done.

Email From a Recent Book Buyer

Hi Hans,

This book is amazing. I can’t believe it isn’t on the top of the NYT bestsellers list. There is so much great information there. For 20 years I have been in a relationship like the one you described. I am struggling with the realization that I this go on so long without doing anything about it. I rented an apartment on the down low and have started preparations to move. I am being careful though as I do believe my safety could be an issue. I am definitely willing to pay the price to get out of the box. 

Your book is super helpful. 

Thank you

This Book is For

Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System was written for:

She likes to lecture you like you are a child
  • Men who feel like they are being verbally abused but are not sure.
  • Men whose wives are giving them a very hard time.
  • Men who think they have a duty to stay with a wife no matter how badly she treats you.
  • Men who just want to be dead.
  • Men who work a lot to avoid their wives.
  • Men who eat way too much to dull the pain.
  • Men who have an extremely sarcastic, demanding, ungrateful wife.
  • Men who are not sure why they are unhappy.
  • Men who want a better life for themselves.
  • Men who are worried about the effect of divorce on their children.
  • Men who think they are modeling bad behavior for their children.
  • Men who are thinking of getting married and wondering if their girlfriend is going to be high maintenance or difficult.
  • Men who want to die young.
  • Men who for religious or for traditional or family reasons think they have to stay married.
  • Men who think they owe their lives to their wives.
  • Men who think it is somehow noble to suffer.
  • Anyone who suspects they know a man in this situation.  The best gift to a person is the gift of hope.

Is This You?  Overweight, Exhausted, Needing Huge Doses of Caffeine and Junk Food to Try to Stay Awake at Work

If this picture reminds you of yourself, you need this book immediately. You are on a direct path to an early grave with little time left to enjoy your life.

This picture reminds me in my married days.  Very overweight.  Wearing ugly clothes.  Falling asleep at my desk even though I was drinking massive amounts of caffeine and gorging on junk food.

I was exhausted dealing with the demands from my wife.  I never slept that much at home and never had any time to take care of myself.

My life was not my own.  I bent over backwards for my wife and lived a miserable  life because of it.

Caveats - Who This Book is NOT for

  • Men with wonderful wives who treat them well.
  • Single men or divorced men who intend to remain single because they understand the danger of marriage in the western world and the powerless position good men are stuck with no matter what they do.
  • Men who are the abuser in the relationship.  If you are the bad one, this book is not for you.  My only guidance it is that you need to leave your wife now and let her have a good life.  You do not have to be the statistic of another man who beats his wife, or verbally abuses his wife or kills his wife in a fit of rage.  You can just leave, get yourself right or get help and treat women right.

If this is you, DO NOT buy Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System unless it is to give to a man you truly care about.  Far too many men are stuck in horrible marriages and stoically tolerating a miserable life right up into their early graves.  And I know you know men like this.

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To all the frustrated married men out there the eBook   Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System describes my story of the misery I lived in and the steps I went through in order to get my mind right and develop enough courage to leave my wife.  You may cry when you think of the years you have wasted in your own life.  You will see yourself in my story and be inspired to make changes in your life for the better.

You do not have to continue to deal with the misery of being in a marriage with  wife who refuses to be kind, loving and respectful.

You can find your inner power and develop the courage to leave your wife, start over and become a happier man.

You deserve to be happy. Let no one tell you otherwise.

This is a book like no other. It is a collection of tips, resources and mind altering strategies I used to develop enough courage, enough knowledge and enough hope to actually go through with the agonizing decision I made to leave my wife.

You cannot count on anyone helping you. No one can save you. You have to save yourself. You have to do this yourself.  This book will help you to rediscover your power.  Buy this book and start putting your life back together today.This book not only explains the 3 step system, it lays out specific actions to take and steps in the process and shows you how fantastic your life can be.

Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System is is the book I wish I had years ago. This book would have saved me years of frustration, years of being verbally abused and would have given me a tremendous head start on creating the happier man life I truly love today.

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  3. Guidance and Action Steps: When you buy Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System You won’t waste any more of your time searching for guidance and wondering what to to because it will be right there in the book.  I did all the research, study and summarizing for you and it is right there in the book.
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  7. Check out my website - ahappierman.com and my You Tube Channel.  I have lots of free content for you to enjoy.  I could have only created all this content and had so much fun doing it because I am free from all the issues of dealing with a bad marriage.

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